As a Surrogate or Egg Donor, you will be expected to take a number of injectable medications and experience many blood draws. If you’re contemplating becoming a Surrogate or Egg Donor, but are worried about your fear of needles, here are some tips that may help you get through the process a little easier.

Ask for a butterfly needle

These small needles are very thin and are attached to a slim, flexible catheter. They can be very precisely placed without causing any pain. There is little to no movement of the needle as the blood is collected, because the catheter will be used to connect the tube for collection.

Ask for an experienced phlebotomist

Don’t be afraid to ask how much experience the person collecting your blood has had. If you don’t feel comfortable, explain your fear and ask for a more experienced phlebotomist or lab technician.

Reward yourself

Plan a special reward for after each blood draw. Get a pedicure, or treat yourself to a fancy pastry. Looking forward to a reward can help you focus on the positive outcome of the experience.

Use an anesthetic

Most doctors will happily prescribe EMLA cream (lidocaine/prilocaine) or another anesthetic to reduce the pain of injections. The cream should be applied well in advance and given enough time to numb the area fully before the injection. Most people apply the cream 20 minutes in advance and cover it with plastic wrap to allow the medication to absorb into the skin.

Buddy up!

If the thought of self-administering medications makes you cringe, ask for help from your partner or a friend. Some of the injections (particularly the intramuscular shots) can be daunting and often need to be injected at an awkward angle. Asking someone to be your “shot buddy” is a great way to avoid having to watch the injection or work up the nerve to self-administer.

Keep your eye on the prize

Always remember that you’re doing this for the best reason of all – to bring the joy of becoming a parent to a hopeful individual or couple who would not be able to achieve their dream without your compassion and dedication.

Staci Swiderski, CEO and owner of Family Source Consultants, has been a prominent leader in reproductive medicine for over two decades. Through her strategic vision and dedication, she has developed Family Source Consultants into a globally recognized agency specializing in comprehensive egg donation and gestational surrogacy services. Under Staci’s leadership, the agency has become a trusted partner for intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors worldwide, known for its rigorous standards, compassionate support, and commitment to excellence in third-party reproduction.

Her professional insight is uniquely informed by her own family-building experiences. As an intended parent, Staci welcomed her son via gestational surrogacy in 2005, and as a known egg donor, she assisted an infertile couple in expanding their family. These experiences lend a rare depth to her leadership and have fueled her ongoing dedication to ethical, empathetic, and professional support within the field of reproductive medicine.